You mean with my eyes ?!?
Here how the internets explains the meaning of are you seeing someone ?
While dating might mean anything from a first meeting to being exclusive (your girlfriend/boyfriend) it is usually meant as the beginning of the process. Seeing someone, as in “I’ve been seeing someone for a while now” could cover the same ground, but usually means the end of the process, as in boyfriend/girlfriend, or you would like them to be.
Hence the phrase “Are you seeing someone?” doesn’t usually mean have you been on a date, but means someone you have been on several dates with and perhaps might be getting serious about.
Heres my two cents and please don’t ask for change
Dating: I would consider seeing someone the first 3 to 5 times as dating. This usually allows both parties involved time to find out if there’s chemistry, compatibly, etc.. For those of you who have already knocked boots in the first 3 dates please move on to seeing someone. Of course, that is contingent if you’re still calling
Seeing Someone: Phase 2. After dating a few times the two parties involved are obvioulsy enamored with each other and continue to go out but may have not yet decided to see each other exclusively. This may be the phase where going at it like rabbits describes a lot of relationships. Now if you make it through this phase then Captain Kirk may ask Scotty for warp drive and before you know it, you’re in
Exclusivity Mode: Ah, Love is in the air and an agreement binded by lawyers for both parties have agreed to only see each other. Gifts are given and a daily barrage of compliments are aimed right towards your main vessel; your heart. The train ride is smooth and if all goes well then it looks like the next stop is
Engagementville: The bended knee, the question is popped, you’re so giddy but you stop crying long enough to say Yes Yes. You set a date, make plans, and get lost in each others eyes on a daily basis. Everythings in bloom, you can’t stop smiling and finally the time has come and before you know it, BAM, it’s
MarriageMania: (please insert your own comments here. I’m assuming if you’re commenting you’re no longer married)
For me it’s when someone has decided to date you and stops going out with other people. If things go well I think you then move on to be bf/gf soon after.
Just that, a love interest, or someone your interested in, like dating. Does not have to mean sex, but it can.
Seeing Eachother. This may not need a conversation to back it up. After a while of exclusive dating, its just easier to say “I am seeing him.”… rather than “I am exclusivly dating him.” This may involve sleep-overs, meeting of friends, couple-outings, meeting of family in some cases spare keys…all sorts of other seemingly awkward events to test your (I hate to say it) “relationship-potential”.
I think you are attractive and would like to have relations and/ or a relationship with you. However if there is someone in your life that you are “relationing” or in a relationship with already then we can plan to do it together or let me know my place right now. I mean here is your chance to cheat on the person you are “seeing” so come get some of this over here or let me know you are NOT interested right now so I don’t waste any more time.